Anyone who has worked a professional kitchen during a busy service will tell you the same thing: the calm you see on the line has almost nothing to do with the chaos of that specific night. It comes from mise en place, the hour or two before service when every ingredient is measured, chopped, and placed exactly where the hand expects to find it under pressure.
The rush does not create the composure or destroy it, the rush only reveals what was already prepared. A kitchen that skipped its prep does not become chaotic because the night is hard, it was always going to be chaotic, the hard night just made it visible.
Composure under pressure is rarely a personality trait people either have or lack. It is usually evidence of work done earlier, when nobody was watching and the pressure had not arrived yet.
Borrowed Line:
"We suffer more in imagination than in reality."
Often attributed to Seneca
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